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		<title>By: Kaua Alii</title>
		<link>http://www.hawaiireaders.com/blog/2009/09/25/how-much-romance-can-you-handle/comment-page-1/#comment-133</link>
		<dc:creator>Kaua Alii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 21:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get pretty uptight at how most people assume that "Twilight", the series is suppose to be just a story of good people.
First of all, vampire stories were always about sex. The sexual thrill of sucking someone else's blood etc. Or maybe that's ok with people. It would ber so much more intellectual and absorbing to read literature without having to ALWAYS be with a sexual conotation. I love romance like the next person but not to the point where all romance books must have sex. Geez!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get pretty uptight at how most people assume that "Twilight", the series is suppose to be just a story of good people.<br />
First of all, vampire stories were always about sex. The sexual thrill of sucking someone else's blood etc. Or maybe that's ok with people. It would ber so much more intellectual and absorbing to read literature without having to ALWAYS be with a sexual conotation. I love romance like the next person but not to the point where all romance books must have sex. Geez!!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Little</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Little</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lynde, your earlier comment is attached to my earlier blog post "A Little Romance: Anticipation."  If the cowboys did it, as you suggest, then it's in a different corral.  Thank you for commenting!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lynde, your earlier comment is attached to my earlier blog post "A Little Romance: Anticipation."  If the cowboys did it, as you suggest, then it's in a different corral.  Thank you for commenting!</p>
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		<title>By: Lynde Lakes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lynde Lakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 10:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay, now I see one that said, I don't see it.  The wolf must have ate the other one.  He gets ravenous from time to time.  Or maybe it was one of the cowboys who lassoed it and whisked it away.  They are always doing things like that.  Aloha, Lynde</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay, now I see one that said, I don't see it.  The wolf must have ate the other one.  He gets ravenous from time to time.  Or maybe it was one of the cowboys who lassoed it and whisked it away.  They are always doing things like that.  Aloha, Lynde</p>
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		<title>By: Lynde Lakes</title>
		<link>http://www.hawaiireaders.com/blog/2009/09/25/how-much-romance-can-you-handle/comment-page-1/#comment-124</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynde Lakes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 10:23:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I posted a reply.  But I don't see it Michael???? Aloha, Lynde</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I posted a reply.  But I don't see it Michael???? Aloha, Lynde</p>
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		<title>By: Dori Hertzberg</title>
		<link>http://www.hawaiireaders.com/blog/2009/09/25/how-much-romance-can-you-handle/comment-page-1/#comment-117</link>
		<dc:creator>Dori Hertzberg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 23:56:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting to see the different perspectives.  Any romantic gesture is fantastic, no matter how small, as long as it is sincere and spontaneous, but not done for show. In a novel, it really helps reveal the character of the person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting to see the different perspectives.  Any romantic gesture is fantastic, no matter how small, as long as it is sincere and spontaneous, but not done for show. In a novel, it really helps reveal the character of the person.</p>
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		<title>By: Dylan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dylan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:41:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really like this little collection of different perspectives on romance and want to throw my own voice into the mix.

Romance is a very touchy subject for me in life and, by extension, in fiction where the author has free reign over how and where s/he presents it. I'm an idealist at heart who grew up thinking that all things in life should have some sort of romantic aspect to them. But they don't, and learning that reality was a painful process. Being a romantic sets you up for disappointment. I spent much of my youth making an effort to expect the worst so that when anything good happened I would be pleasantly shocked by it. On that note, romance born out of struggle and desperation makes the most sense to me. Anyone can love and wants to be loved in return - that is our nature as social creatures - but when you've been deprived of that and come to need it as a basic survival mechanism, that desire burns very bright and often ends tragically, which peaks my interest.

I'm not sure where I stand on romance's place in fiction. Most things I've read that are generally classified as "romance" alone are too saccharine for my tastes. I don't view romance as a stand-alone genre as much as I do a facet to storytelling craft as a whole. People need to feel a connection with others, and a good writer has the ability to translate that desire (however it manifests itself) over to the characters of their creation in a way that the reader can identify with or at least feel something toward that isn't indifference.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really like this little collection of different perspectives on romance and want to throw my own voice into the mix.</p>
<p>Romance is a very touchy subject for me in life and, by extension, in fiction where the author has free reign over how and where s/he presents it. I'm an idealist at heart who grew up thinking that all things in life should have some sort of romantic aspect to them. But they don't, and learning that reality was a painful process. Being a romantic sets you up for disappointment. I spent much of my youth making an effort to expect the worst so that when anything good happened I would be pleasantly shocked by it. On that note, romance born out of struggle and desperation makes the most sense to me. Anyone can love and wants to be loved in return - that is our nature as social creatures - but when you've been deprived of that and come to need it as a basic survival mechanism, that desire burns very bright and often ends tragically, which peaks my interest.</p>
<p>I'm not sure where I stand on romance's place in fiction. Most things I've read that are generally classified as "romance" alone are too saccharine for my tastes. I don't view romance as a stand-alone genre as much as I do a facet to storytelling craft as a whole. People need to feel a connection with others, and a good writer has the ability to translate that desire (however it manifests itself) over to the characters of their creation in a way that the reader can identify with or at least feel something toward that isn't indifference.</p>
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		<title>By: Cami</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cami</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 02:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was fun reading others views of "how much romance."  Thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was fun reading others views of "how much romance."  Thanks for sharing!</p>
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